Forcing Kindness

Day 2,012, 14:04 Published in Austria Austria by Rangeley


Many consider the government to be a tool to enforce their particular views of morality on others. Some apply this to social issues: views of religion, views of marriage. Others apply this to economic issues: views on charity, views on profit. But is behavior truly moral or good, if you have no choice in the matter? Can you be forced to be kind? Ultimately, you can't be: the behavior would be like an empty shell. Only when there is true choice, can behavior be truly good.

Free Will

This is a question raised when considering the broader question of free will. It is the ability to do wrong, that gives value to the times that doing right is chosen - just like dark gives value to light. We all have the ability to choose the path we follow; which path we choose is a reflection of who we really are.

You aren't just born knowing perfectly how to behave - you have instincts sure, but a lot comes too from experience. You do bad things, come to regret it, and try to not repeat those same mistakes. You can grow and learn as a person this way - you learn not just that you should behave in a good way, but why you should behave in a good way.

Force

Some see it as much cleaner to simply have a "good and moral" government enforce behavior on others. But this is harmful in several ways: one, if you simply "behave good" because you are forced into it, this becomes the "why" instead of the reasons inherent in the actions themselves. Rather than helping a neighbor in need because they need help, you help them to get a tax deduction, or because you want a promotion. Like a muscle that does not get used, the true reasons behind why actions are good can be forgotten or just never considered, leaving only an empty miming of actions.

This leaves a people vulnerable to being led astray: if morality is simply something that is forced upon you, and not willingly chosen, it is shallow and can be swept away by a different force later. It becomes like a house with no foundation, resting only on sand, waiting for the next hurricane.

Secondly, if we cannot be trusted to be moral on our own, why should people in the government be trusted to be moral on their own? Who will watch over them to ensure they behave in good ways? Here is where things truly breakdown. People in the government are no more capable than anyone else at being moral - plus, they have all the temptations of power on top of those everyone else faces. Many who speak loudest about “family values” find themselves embroiled in scandals - many who speak loudest about “wealth redistribution” are themselves using hidden bank accounts and among the wealthiest in their nations. Not only is forced morality more shallow by definition, but to trust that they would somehow be better at dictating moral behavior to you, then you could yourself, is misplaced trust.



Morality

Ultimately, there is not only more reward from moral behavior that is willingly chosen, but there is more moral behavior itself, when it is left to people - and not dictated from the government. A society becomes stronger when it is able to freely address challenging questions, whether it is darker issues of intolerance and racism, or lighter issues of how best to help others.

The answer to societal issues is not to grant more and more power to a government that falls prey to these very societal issues - hoping morality can be found in dark smoke filled rooms. It’s to push these issues into the open, so they can be rigorously examined by the light of day.