Being cool and stuff

Day 2,581, 19:07 Published in Ireland Ireland by Sweet Drinker

If it's winter. Your kitchen is on fire. You and your family are trapped in the basement. BOOM, the door suddenly flies open when a friend you haven't seen in ages bursts through, fire extinguisher in hand.
Despite being homeless for 3 months, he'd blown a small fortune on a taxi to come save you. Abandoning any chance of getting rent together for his own home by coming all this way to save you.
After this bloke has helped save your home, you & your family don't immediately sit down to discuss whether to let him stay on the couch, or whether to fk him out back into the cold with nowhere to go...
Ofc you wouldn't do that. There's nothing to discuss.

But right now we have just been saved, by a friend that has been homeless for months, who spent a fortune to come 1/2 way round the world. Abandoning any probability of regaining their own home this term.
And right now some folks are arguing that we should not have offered them our couch without discussing it first.

Call this all ad hominen. I don't care. This is character based tbh.
You wanna talk about the tax implications of lending Macedonia a region? Go right ahead. Wanna start discussing the agenda for next month if they manage to stay here? Good hustle. Wanna talk about the production loss factor (looking Crosseye'd here) of the lost region? Love it man! How smart players be thinkn!
But folks, if you think aiding an ally in need is up for discussion, you are not right.

It's as simple as that. If you're not willing to lend a single region to an ally from the most hostile region of the globe, you've bipassed national-level-uselessness and gone straight for International-Level-Liability.
I can understand folks that haven't much experience with international affairs. But to those, I ask you understand that it's not ok to think so greedily. If our allies thought that way we would not even have Congresses to discuss anything with. Simple courteousy counts for so much in erep. Friendships that win wars form from the smallest of considerations. It's the most charming aspect of Erepublik really.

As for experienced players touting this... discussion, are you for real? Seriously?
Did you forget about the superior morality?
You're placing Congress level democracy above basic human level morality. Our friends didn't ask for help, but our government could see they might need help. Helpfulness isn't a topic for these lot, its just in their nature. Why isn't it yours?

What about the socialism?
Redistribution of resources anybody? Need to discuss loaning 1 of your 6 regions to the very ally who helped you regain them? I'm the Capitalist's capitalist, certified. But an article asking for a vote over allowing our ally to stick it out here at least long enough to get a Congress of there own? It's embarrassing for our country. How greedy would someone need to be to Vote 'No' to such a proposal? Wouldn't have commented so much on it, or written this article about it if I wasn't so repelled by that line of thinking. Seriously this is like "Things We Learned In Playschool", not a decision.
"MY SANDBOX!".. just lol..

What about the 'comrades'?
After using them to scare off the Chinese you need to discuss whether we'd help them also get a Congress this month? MyGod I hope that's a minority stance. Who would want eIreland to be that?
At least capitalists believe in paying their debts. If you think there was a discussion required before helping eMacedonia get a congress after 1/4yr without one, over a single Irish region, after they came to help get us the island. Well....

People have long memories in erep. In four months the ThatGuy now demanding discussion over helping a friend in need could be your Minister of Foreign Affairs ThatGuy. Or even ThatGuyCP... And us being a small community in a wargame, ThatGuy might just need to call upon some friends for help.
Imagine that conversation:
ThatGuy: "Ireland is being invaded HELP PLZ!"
Ally1: "Saaay.... aren't you that ThatGuy who didn't want to help an ally?"
ThatGuy: "Errr, I just thought we needed proper time to discuss the plan."
Ally2: "Understood. We too will be requiring proper time to discuss helping you. Bye now o7"
Ally1: "Say, anybody up for 80k worth of Serbian RW's?"
Ally2: "kk, nothin else doin atm
ThatGuy: "..."
IRCbot- "ThatGuy has been kicked from channel by Ally3 ("AHA-HA-HA-HAHAHA")"

You may think this is an oversimplified childish version of FA's. But I promise this is exactly how it goes down. Seen this scenario play out a dozen times.
Gonna see it happen a dozen more too. Human nature has its weak moments.

You want to know why your government acted so spontaneously to help eMacedonia? It's because you elected the type of ppl who help allies. Plain&Simples. That wasn't a weak moment. That was the kind of moment you should want your community to be all about.


eCanada is considered eIreland's sister country after all these years, but at one point we spent 2 months preparing to go to war against each other. Were openly opposing each other in indirect fronts. Proposals and treaties just don't repair rifts like that. But acts of consideration do.
Canadian CP enters Irish IRC channel
CanukCP: "What is this?"
Irishman: "Irish supply channel. Do you need weapons?
CanukCP: "It says your supplying for Canada"
Irishman: "Yes. Do you need weapons?"
CanukCP: "Why are you supplying our battle?"
Irishman: "Nobody gets to wipe Canada but us 😛"
brief pause while supply operation continues
CanukCP: "Maybe it's time we sorted this shit out."

I not really into screenshots. I know I don't have it word for word. But that is how it went down for-realzies. We could have had a very bitter war, but to this day eCanada and eIreland never crossed paths. Funnily enough, eCanada had their own supply operation going that night. So we didn't even get much uptake on our channel. It really is the thought that counts!
While the eCan/eIre story has a happy ending, the eCan/eUSA story had similar beginnings, but the outcome was far different. Remember we're talking about Broalliance here. eCan+eUSA were united for years. Now they drive one another into rival alliances. That could easily have been us.
Don't underestimate the value of simple generousities. They are remembered much longer than weapons or money.

You should simply encourage people to behave this way. Elect ones that do. Then expect them to, and be happy when they live up to that expectation.

Your governments shouldn't have to be afraid to of doing the right thing.
Make the eWorld a better place and such,
Sw33t