Bečka škola
Ludi Deda
Vienna has always been the cultural center of Europe.
'Vienna School' is a well-known term for polite, chivalrous and gentlemanly etiquette.
Unfortunately, today we are not even close to the gentlemen we used to be. There are many reasons for that and I will list just a few:
-large migrations where some hillbilly and primitive people come to cultural centers and impose their unculture and vulgarity
- a general crisis of morality and growing egoism
- certain interest groups reach their goals "through other people's corpses" and are self-sufficient
Here are some rules of conduct for the old Viennese school:
The gentleman always opens the door to his partner
The gentleman walks closer to the pavement
The gentleman always reserves a seat in the restaurant
The gentleman offered his jacket
The gentleman is coming on time
The gentleman gets up when the lady enters the room
The gentleman helps the lady to sit down at the table
The gentleman always gives way
The gentleman always says "thank you" and "please"
The gentleman has manners when eating
The gentleman is never rude to waiters and servants
The gentleman is paying the bill
The gentleman will escort her to the doorstep
The gentleman is listening
The gentleman keeps his word
The gentleman shows who he cares about
These are just some of the things from the Vienna School of Behavior, and I would like to add some more that are very important and are not liste
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A true gentleman will show gratitude for the good or service done to him.
A true gentleman will not grab greedily just for himself without looking at the people around him.
A real gentleman will help the people around him (especially if it costs nothing)
As vivid examples of this I will cite a few things: XY publishes an article in a newspaper and egoists and self-lovers of course don’t help by voting or commenting. XY publishes an article in which he donates food and the same vultures are the first to comment and of course they do NOT endorse ONE, ONE, ONE, even 5 cc. Of course, the people who publish these articles are not up to 5, 100, 1000 cc, but it is a matter of culture and a sign of attention to thank them at least in that way
I don't want to write any more, so I hope that my dear friends born Austrians, people living in Austria or those who just play for eRep Austria will try to understand me, because for some without morals I am not even writing this article.
So, how much are you, sir?
Austria, honor, honesty above all
On the end part of my upbringing
'Bečka škola' je opčepoznati termin za uljudno, viteško te gospodsko ponašanje po bontonu.
Nažalost danas nismo ni približno gospoda kakva smo nekada bili, Ima puno razloga za to i navest ću samo neke:
-velike migracije gdje kojekakvi brđani i primitivci dolaze u kulturna središta i nameću svoju nekulturu i prostaštvo
- opčenita kriza morala i sve veči egoizam
- određene interesne skupine dolaze do ciljeva „preko tuđih leševa“ i sami su sebi dostatni
Evo nekih pravila ponašanja stare bečke škole:
Gospodin uvijek otvara vrata svojoj partnerici
Gospodin hoda bliže kolniku
,Gospodin uvijek rezervira mjesto u restoranu
Gospodin ponudi svoju jaknu
Gospodin dolazi na vrijeme
Gospodin se digne kad dama ulazi u prostoriju
Gospodin pomaže dami da sjedne za stol
Gospodin uvijek ustupi svoje mjesto
Gospodin uvijek kaže “hvala” i “molim”
Gospodin ima manire prilikom jela
Gospodin nikad nije nepristojan prema konobarima i posluzi
Gospodin plaća račun
Gospodin će je ispratiti do kućnoga praga
Gospodin sluša
Gospodin drži do svoje riječi
Gospodin pokazuje do koga mu je stalo
Ovo su samo neke stvari iz Bečke škole ponašanja, a dodao bi još neke koje su jako bitne a nisu navedene:
Pravi gospodin će pokazati zahvalnost za učinjeno mu dobro ili uslugu.
Pravi gospodin neće grabiti pohlepno samo za sebe ne gledajuči na ljude oko sebe.
Pravi gospodin će pomoči ljudima oko sebe (a naročito ako ne košta ništa)
Kao zorne primjere za to navest ću neke stvari: XY objavi članak u novinama i egoisti i sebeljubi naravno ne pomognu glasanjem ili komentiranjem. XY objavi članak u kojem poklanja hranu i isti taj/ti lešinari prvi komentiraju i naravno NIJEDNOM , NIJEDNOM, NIJEDNOM ne endorsiraju pa makar ni 5 cc. Naravno ljudima koji objavljuju te članke nije do 5, 100, 1000 cc ali je stvar kulture i znak pažnje zahvaliti im se bar na takav način.
Ne da mi se dalje pisati, pa se nadam da će me dragi prijatelji rođeni austrijanci, ljudi koji žive u austriji ili oni koji samo igraju za eRep austriju pokušati shvatiti, jer za neke bez morala ni ne pišem ovaj članak.
I, koliki ste gospodin?
Austrija, čast, poštenje iznad svega
Comments
You brought an interesting topic, which had been something I had been checking about.
Gentlemanly on this times, the XXI century still exist, but many people use it for things they shouldn't. So when you use it, people may get the wrong idea...
At least when I was a child, I was told that we should always walks closer to the pavement. In my mind it was for this logic:
If some car come to the sidewalk, at least I will be run over bu the car and not my partner.
So, at the end, the gentleman's job, is make their parner to feel safe and appreciated, not the opposite.
P😨 Maybe is a stereotype, but well, something that attacts me from Austria, is that Austria looks like the country of Gentleman.
In Spanish I usually say: Austria es el país de la Elegancia (Austria is the country of Elegance)
People are people. And some of the things we are is being different. While I agree about everything you've written about gentlemen, I don't agree about bringing up dramas. So some people didn't vote his article - I hope you don't consider them killers as well. They are not monsters. Maybe they didn't have time. Some people commented on the food supply article while being level 500? Doesn't mean they have a ton of food. I think we should stop judging people. And more importantly I will never understand why bring up this stuff? I don't see any good it will do..
But if we are running out of interesting topics to talk about.. I guess dramas fill up the spot really nice. Its a good example of what I was talking in the beginning of this comment. We are all different, and in my 10 years of being here in Austria I've never met any people who wanted to make dramas on purpose. I guess we are all different, and everything is allowed so.. take this as just another pointless comment in a river of such ones.
But at least I commented and voted, so I'm not a bad person 😉
For the first time, I did not "paste" the article on any wall. So I didn't advertise. I didn't make anyone read. I am 52 years old and I live every day as if it is my last because half of my lungs are not working and I recently had a 4th heart attack. When you pull my tongue, a real friend would call and ask how you are (it's a matter of culture and friendship) and especially because I literally risked my life with my impaired health by driving you when you had the crown. Of course, I didn't do it for money because there is no money for which I would risk my damaged health except for the people I care about.
Of course I have a lot to say, but I have achieved something in RL, so I don't have to prove myself hidden behind pixels. I have helped many in life and I will do so while I am alive, and here I have people who are dear to me and with whom I communicate, so there is no need to communicate with those with whom you do not share opinions and viewsOf course I have a lot to say, but I have achieved something in RL, so I don't have to prove myself hidden behind pixels. I have helped many in life and I will do so while I am alive, and here I have people who are dear to me and with whom I communicate, so there is no need to communicate with those with whom you do not share opinions and views
100 time support. Articles is not "must read" then I dont know where is problem.
Q7
Kak nije svak rodjen na selu seljak,
Bome niti svak rodjen u gradu nije gospodin..
Good article, and I understand your point of view.
But also had the opportunity to meet many ppl eHere, and some are more active in some fields, others in other fields..
For me was strange why is so difficult sometimes for young players to finish their 25 comms missions.. and I found diff ways to help them.. and this can be applied to many parts of eRepublik.. or life..
But at the end is most important to keep communication on respectful level, and not assume about people who are they in RL before we get more chance to know them 😉
I've been surprised very nicely sp many times, but also had few disappointments.. but that is life (and eLife) 🙂
Very nice talk. Why is so hard help new players? One klik on article vote and comment
I don't understand what are you saying about the endorsement... I think, each one can play his own game, isn't?
"Live and let die" 😉