Responsibility of Action
Rangeley
All around the world, crimes - some small, some large - are committed. By virtue of the sheer statistics involved, if you were to randomly select examples, you would find they are more often than not committed by a member of the ethnic majority of a nation, against another member of the same ethnic majority of the nation.
And yet, rarely would this lead, for instance, an Austrian to argue that because an Austrian committed a crime against him, he could never forgive “Austrians” - and could never work with “Austrians.” For one thing, they are an Austrian themselves - for another, they likely know other Austrians very well too. Out of this familiarity, they know not all Austrians are the same, and see it would be silly to hold all responsible for the actions of individuals.
But it is much more common for blame to be collectively placed when the crime is committed by someone from “another group.” There is not the same familiarity - after all, they are “different,” perhaps even a bit scary. But it isn’t “more acceptable” when a crime is committed by someone that looks like you - that talks like you. These things don’t lessen the pain they can cause by stealing from you or murdering a loved one. Nor is it any more reasonable to hold another ethnicity collectively responsible, than it is your own.
Cycles of Violence
And yet there can be no denying, there are cycles of violence in this world. A member of one group is killed by another. Revenge is sought, and more are killed. Revenge is in turn sought for these losses, and even more are killed. Situations can escalate - but explaining to a mother that their child was killed because a member one group killed someone in another, does not console them. The lack of justification lays quite apparent.
Some would puff up their chests and say it is the patriotic thing to keep on going - to keep their people in a cycle of violence and go for more kills than the other. These people miss that just as the actions of others led them to become emotional and angry, so too may their actions cause others to become emotional and angry. They miss that their actions not only do not raise the dead, but put more innocent lives in harms way, including people of their own group.
Wise words warn there is no reward merely in loving “your own” - even criminals do this. There is reward to those who can recognize the humanity in other people. There is reward to a patriot that puts his animal emotions behind him and seeks to break from a cycle of violence; seeks to be the better man, and deliver a better future to his nation.
Responsibility
Moving away from the more extreme examples, which I find are not always the most illuminating, there is reward for someone who is not blinded by stereotypes when playing eRepublik. If you come into the game with a set list of eNations you want to be friendly with, and a set list of eNations you would never be friendly with, you already put yourself at a disadvantage. It is like a chess player who decides they will not use their knights because a horse looked at them the wrong way as a child. You miss the reality of the situation in the game.
As noted before, the relationship between eAustria and eSlovakia has been a very good one - one of the strongest we have as an eNation, and one that has delivered clear benefit to our us. The only reasons given up to yesterday for why we should betray them, and more broadly all of ONE, were based on the real life views of some non-real life Austrians; and today we have seen in articles a reminder of this. But people who collectively hold other groups responsible for the actions of individuals, and do not hold themselves responsible for the collective actions of their own group, perpetuate a hypocrisy.
We all are ultimately responsible for our own actions, whether they are positive or negative. We all can make a choice of what path to pursue. We can choose to see the humanity in others, or hide our heads and pretend it is only those we know best that are truly human. It’s up to you. But anyone can love their own.
Comments
In the internet where everyone can express his thoughts and feelings without much efforts you've to go through a lot of bullshit to find the few gems.
As a member of an 'enemy' nation - even if I would take such things seriously - I have to admit this one is an inspiring piece of art.
chapeau o7
Nem érdemes ezeknek magyarázni, soha se fogják megérteni, csak ilyen hosszú semmitmondó cikket irnak.
Amit szlovákia csinált magyarországgal egyének tette?
ugyan már Rangley inkább hallgass.
MH, mire gondolsz?
Amúgy a szlovákiai helyzetet én úgy látom kb mint a magyart 2004. december 5én. Az emberek közönye és nem odafigyelése a veszélyes. Túl sok a birka, de azért van egy nem elhanyagolható igen normális réteg is(az erepet játszó szlovákok zöme is ebbe tartozik amúgy).
So true. So awesome an article; this is a masterpiece, old friend. \m/
Rangeley, good article. But Kuruc group will never change, they play this game from another point of view. (and the more normal part play this game for fun, and they find fun that way, and I must admit, it is truly funny)
Goolem: menj már a pi...ba a semmitmondó szövegeddel...
Okoskodsz itt meg minden közben semmi tartalom nincs a mondanivalódban,úgy ahogy ezeknek a semmitmondó cikkeknek!!
De amint látom te is azok közé a birkák közé tartozol..és számunkra nincs normális réteg, bár mi nem is ebben gondolkodunk!
Szlovákia MAGYAR lesz ha tetszik ha nem!
Aztán a nyelved remélem elég hosszú : D
Rangeley: bla bla bla!!
Go home!!
Austria - do you remember this? http://www.erepublik.com/en/article/une-m-eacute-moire-de-l-039-histoire-2011706/1/20
csiripia: felvidéki vagyok, tudom mit beszélek. De nemtom te valaha beszéltél-e szlovákkal életedben, vagy egyáltalán láttál-e.
Goolem a hozzáállásod alapján téged inkább asszimilálódott magyarnak gondollak : /
Persze nem akarom senki magyarságát megkérdőjelezni meg patika mérlegen kimérni. de az amit te meg sok hozzád hasonló tesz, hogy inkább a szlovákok fenekében van, nekik akar megfelelni az elborzasztó jelenség. Stockholm-szindróma.Nem kell a hétköznapi életben vellett merve magyarkodni. Nem, nem kell utálni a hétköznapi embereket, szomszédodat, iskolatársadat stb, sajnos a történelem úgy hozta hogy keverten kell élned velük. De ez a minden nemzeti identitást feladó, magyarságodat valósággal szégyelő magatartás sehová nem vezet-a gyermekeid már biztosan szlovákul fognak beszélni.Ez szomorú.
Persze tudom most jön majd a válasz hogy ugyan mit tudok én az egészről meg különben is hülye bunkó vérmagyar vagyok, ahogy mondani szoktátok de ezt el szerettem volna mondani.
12 éve élek már magyarországon, nehéz lesz így aszimilálódni 😃
Amúgy tényleg van ilyen is olyan is, szomoru de ez az élet sorsa. Tenni persze kell ellene. És tényleg jóval többet tudok szerintem a témáról mint a vérmagyarok 99%, lehet pont ezért nem pattogok.
Amúgy az a baj veletek kurucokkal (nem mindegyikőtökkel), hogy semmiben se külömböztök pl azoktól a szlovákoktól akiket a legjobban megvettek. Nektek a gyűlölködés hobbi szintű életérzés, de nem nagyon van megalapozott képetek, tapasztalatotok a dolgok valódi mivoltáról. De ahogy mondtam, van normális is köztetek, pl MH1984, néha Radaros. Aztán van a másik nagyon primitív véglet, pl csiripapa.
Dude, Horses are fine, it's the Bishops I never use *shudders* 😛
Goolem: hála Istennek nagyon is különbözünk:
A fenéket tudsz te rólunk..csak jártatod a szádat.
Azt hogy én mennyi slotákor ismerek....ahol lakom a szomszédom a szemben lévő család sloták..
Ott dolgozom úgy hogy nekem te ne mond meg kit és hogyan sorolok be!
Such a beauty of an article. Its easier to hate someone than to show respect or love to him, unfortunately. Nationalists tend to blame and they can only blame, but bringing up real solutions - nope.
Saying that all nationalists are like that would interfere with your article, but from what I have seen and read from a part of this group of so-called 'humans', I can hardly believe in the good of the group.
History has shown that hate can only lead to innocent victims and hate only brings regress and no solutions. To be honest, I am very happy to be an Austrian, to be part or Austrian society, to live in Austria, to live in a world of humbleness and wisdom about its past, to know what the people have gone through, to know what has been the result of the 'hate' and following: to live in a world of respect and tolerance.
I am no left-commie, like some of the Kuruc see me (or they want to see me, concept of the enemy) - I am a man of discreet action, rethinked action, considering all points of views, all opinions, all possible solutions. What nationalists tend to do: They isolate their solution from the other point of views and defend it with knives between their teeths, demanding all the spotlight at their words.
Luckily, the world is not that dumb. Or how could one say it easier: The world has learned from its mistakes.
csiripapa: és ezért vesszen minden slotákiai lakos!
Nem nem......csak az anti magyarok! Akik fröcsögnek a történelemről,közben maguknak kreálják és próbálják azt hamisan, torzítva beadagolni..
A játékban pedig elég kevés szlovák van....ezért legalább itt vegyük vissza azt ami a mienk volt!
Ez az én véleményem.Tudom ez sokaknak nem tetszik...de én ilyen vagyok!
Egyébként osztrákok is kevesen vannak...max. ha 10-12 ember.
Erre a sok senki itt papol összefogásról meg nagy ausztriáról....
Egyébként én tudom mi a baj.A baj az,hogy a Kurucok bele rondítottak abba a homokozóba amibe ez a pár ember( nevezzük őket medálvadászoknak itt, mert otthon senkik sem lennének) próbáltak érvényesülni.
Sajnos ez az idő lejárt ideje átadni a staféta botot másnak!!
Döntse el az idő,hogy ki mit csinálna jobban......
ITT AZ IDŐ A KURUCOK URALMÁNAK!!
A többi pedig majd hozza magát.
Na, hát ha már csak az antimagyarok vesszenek az már egy közeledés. Most a szlovák "antimagyar" azt mondaná, hogy csak az "antiszlovákok" vesszenek. Hát így még el is mehetnétek egy közös sörre a szlovák nacionalistákkal, lenne hamar közös nevező : D
Goolem: nem értettél meg : S
I'm tired of this hate vs hate debate...
"I'm tired of this hate vs hate debate... "
losing does that to you : )
Signed!
A területet el rabló tótokat utálom! Na ez így helyes .....
v+s
Sometimes you have to stand up to bullies and sometimes for your culture too.
but rangeley is home, he has been here since eaustria was founded p much
Fantastic article, Rangeley. Your point of view is pretty much similar to mine, I regard nationalistic feelings as a complete nonsense and are simply - from my point of view - regarded as a drivel for the uneducated people as a reason to hate or believe they are above others. Maybe that's why I hate the definition of countries, the way people look at them, I dislike how humans seperate themselves with some imaginary boundaries, it doesn't and probably never will make sense to me. But to look at it, it's possibly better to be part of a group, and being part of it you will always have to back down with your demands in the greater good of others. And with that you realize how strong an opinion of many is in a group, although as unwise as it may be.
Vreath said it perfectly, nationalists hate and dislike others, they can only find flaws, but they never seem to seek for answers that could improve things. If they could find answers, well then, they wouldn't be nationalists or would they be? The mentioned can only hate those who are different than them, and seem to forget how imperfect they can be under their own human skin.
Defending your point of view with violent actions is like fucking for virginity. A complete paradox in every point of view. But sometimes there are no options left when the power of the irrational overcomes the power of the wisdom and the right way.
You did mention one more thing, how people like to blame groups for actions of individuals. I find that sad and at the same time completely true. Groups are somewhat a refugee camp for people without their own will and power to think differently, as harsh as it sounds, it's probably true. Individuals most often hide their real thinking in a group and when they are left to think freely, some may have some dire thoughts going through their head - which eventually resulted in system changes as such and most of the times it went wrong.
Tic-tac-tic-tac 😃
Rémkoppintók - Európa szégyene
Már sokszor dúdolgattam...
Goolem 12 éve élsz magyarországon akkor max 3 évet élhettél Szlovákiába.
Kedves fék Fanni, az egész általánost pozsonyban jártram ki, és a mai napig visszajárok(hazajárok) oda, lévén a szüleim, nagyszüleim ott élnek.
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