Overwhelming
Oraizan
My god, wait I don't believe in god. MY BUDDHA, that was a lot of inbox spam.
After reading through 30+ messages, and even more comments all saying something similar to "You canceled your candidacy T_T" I have to say one thing. Or rather, I have one word to describe it all, overwhelming. Just when I lose hope for something I worked so very hard for, it jumps up and show's me why I loved it in the first place.
I have to admit, even Akki touched my heart. Seeing somebody like him so understanding and willing to apologize for it, for me, touching.
Whether I run again or not will be decided soon, but for now, thank you. Strangers who I just met, old friends who stay strong, I am really happy for your support.
Also, I would like to thank people for not bugging for too much detail. Although a lot went on and you are curious, I cannot talk bad about people. Thus, I am really glad to have that respect that many of you have given me, as to not poke your nose in too deep.
Continuously shocked by Japan, (no, REALLY)
Oraizan~
Nourishing Healthy Seeds.
Consciousness exists on two levels: as seeds and as manifestations of these seeds. Suppose we have a seed of anger in us. When conditions are favorable, that seed may manifest as a zone of energy called anger. It is burning, and it makes us suffer a lot. It is very difficult for us to be joyful at the moment the seed of anger manifests.
Every time a seed has an occasion to manifest itself, it produces new seeds of the same kind. If we are angry for five minutes, new seeds of anger are produced and deposited in the soil of our unconscious mind during those five minutes. That is why we have to be careful when selecting the kind of life we lead and the emotions we express. When I smile, the seeds of smiling have come up. As long as they manifest, new seeds of smiling and joy are planted. But if I don't practice smiling for a number of years, that seed will weaken, and I may not be able to smile anymore.
A few months ago, a little before my eRepublik life I had a childhood friend lose his life. It was an unnatural death, of course someone my age shouldn't die that easily. When that happened everybody felt very sorrow. The funeral home was full of tears, pain, true sorrow for the lost friend. Three different high-school's showed up to express their sympathies. I harbored seeds full of sorrow that day, seeds that probably live with me until this day. I was afraid of going up to the coffin and saying my good-bye to him. Instead of getting my closure, my last sentiment of my dear friend, I cowered and just cried in the back. I let my seeds grow into something ugly, that affects me from time to time.
We need to practice and not be afraid of confronting these feelings. Anger, sorrow, hate, happiness, it is all human and all something we can control. When people turn to stubborn actions and harsh words as a mean for escaping their problems, it hurts more then just yourself. It plants negative seeds in yourself, the people around you, and inevitably stuns the growth of all those people, and your country.
Comments
voted.
Get well soon Oraizan.
Voted.
I love you ♥
♥Empress♥Oraizan~♥
That article really touched my heart. I lost someone very close to me in 2004, and her death still haunts me, too. I frequently dream about her, either her life, or her death. I know that I still have many very strong seeds of sorrow, and it will take a long time to get rid of those seeds, though I'm sure some will always remain. But I also have many strong seeds of happiness from my memories of her, and from everyone else in my life. Your perspective on seeds has really helped me to view these feelings in a different light, and I thank you deeply for that.
I think it is a good decision to rescind your candidacy for President. A president needs to be prepared to stand firm in the face of all conflicts. This experience has allowed you to become aware that now is not the right time and has provided you with a learning experience from which you may grow. There will be many angry voices against a leader and one must be ready to face those with a strong resolve and hold true to their choices and decisions (while also listening carefully and taking others' opinions and suggestions into deliberate consideration).
Do not feel pressured to put yourself up for presidency because your friends are urging you to do so. Take a step back and take advantage of this opportunity so that when you are ready to run again you will be that much more prepared for it.
Akki; thanks~ Aki-sama.
Tohru; I love you too. ♥
Ember; It is a little unexpected to see that I have helped you in such a way, but I am very glad. I hope that you can feel better about her death. Sorrow over a lost one is definitely one of the hardest feelings to get over, one of the hardest seeds to nurture properly, but I hope you will be able to. 🙂
Aesla; Whether I cancel or not is a little hard to tell. You are right, it should be my decision. To be frank, it really wasn't something I wanted to do in the first place. It just felt right, as I was also considering leaving eRepublik. For some reason it just feels different then your normal politics. When friends turn against friends, it gets ugly. Who comes out shiny in the end? I can't say, but I wish I could. Should I really quit over a friend? I don't know. When something hurts you it is usually better to stand down. Speak your mind and leave. Should I continue because of friends? Probably. When people depend on you, it gives you the passion and courage to go for that goal. That has been my career so far, more-or-less, my friends giving me the courage to keep going. Whether it be IRL friends, or eRep friends, they give it to me. It will be a tough decision...
Yes or no, yes or no~. I will definitely sleep and meditate on it, that is for sure.
Just chill out and won't fall into despair:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BB7o8x0wPhs&feature=related" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BB7o8x0wP[..]lated
I must be out-of-the-loop, as I have not really seen anything out of the ordinary in the political discussions in which I have been a part. I have heard that things became heated in other circles, particularly on IRC, but I don't usually take things on teh internets too seriously. But it is unfortunate that things have been said that made you reconsider your candidacy. As Aeslabelle has said, the choice is yours alone.
...this wasn't over that whole Akki v. Ciacho (aka Kukki) battle hero medal thing was it?? ha ha just kidding, it's none of my business if it is of a personal nature, but the national election is in my realm of interests. I would like to see a President of Japan who is steadfast in determination to improve the country, not be swayed by special interests, and will keep active enough to get things done!
Everybody grieves in a different way. 😞
sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do...
feel better!!!
Get well girl, and I still expect to have interresting chats at irc Orai~
All the bests Ora!
Hmmm... I hope everything turns out alright, but I'm a little lost too, I'm not sure what's happened. If you decide to continue your candidacy I'll of course still support you!
I believe the most important quality of a President is their empathy and compassion. Lord Buddha outlined the essential qualities of a King (leader) and they are all extension of empathy and compassion. If a leader has these two qualities, all action that the leader takes will spring forth from this positive place as skillful means and no matter how intelligent or courageous a leader may be, if they lack empathy and compassion all of their actions shall be unskillful means and in the end harmful.
So in the end Oraizan-sama, I believe you've exemplified the wisdom, compassion, and empathy necessary for the office of the President.
May you be filled with compassion. May your pain and suffering ease. May you find peace. 🙂
藤崎一路です。
It is good to have close friends. Well said.
I would never ask you to do something not good for you, however if you still feel able, I would greatly enjoy you're Presidency.
"I have to admit, even Akki touched my heart. Seeing somebody like him so understanding and willing to apologize for it, for me, touching."
This shall forever go into my signature on every forum in eRepublik.
love is in the air!