a bad entertainer & ridiculous infantry
LordDeceiver
Dear all,,
You’re on the brink of hanging up your shingle and offering your gift to the world. But instead you stare blankly at the screen, paralyzed by the fear of no one showing up.
Or… you almost announce your new blog on Facebook and ask for help spreading the word. But you hesitate as your mind fast-forwards to catastrophic what-ifs of no one really loving you enough to help.
Or… you start to ask for the contract, the deal, the review, but fortune-telling anxieties keep it collecting dust in your drafts folder.
Does this sound familiar?
God knows I’ve held myself back, wondering, worrying, agonizing about what someone else might think of me.
I’ve imagined the worst. Launching a product that feels edgy and makes me vulnerable but results in me being shunned by my peers, secretly laughed at at parties I was never invited to.
Sounds crazy, I know. But we all do it to some degree or another.
Sometimes the fear of what “other people” think has sadly tainted my work, holding me back from what I really want to say. I’ve even watered my message down to make it more “appropriate.”
And every time, two things happen like clockwork:
1. I feel gross for compromising my vision.
2. None of the doomsday scenarios ever pan out.
That’s because the real truth is that no one really cares.
I’ll prove it:
You walk into the opening party at an event you’ve been wanting to attend all year. It’s like a big-freaking-deal in your world. Maybe it’s the World Domination Summit or SXSW.
Whatever it is, you’re excited, nervous and totally self-conscious.
You wonder what everyone will think of you. Maybe they’ll think you’re lame. Maybe they’ll find out that you’re not really an expert and have no business teaching what you’re teaching. You’ll be found out. Laughed at.
Or worse, no one will talk to you at all.
But have you ever noticed that everyone else is busy thinking about themselves?
Suddenly, you’re in a big room full of people freaking out about what everyone thinks about them, when no one is really thinking about anyone else at all.
Kind of comedic, huh?
The reality is that no one really cares that much about what you do. So you might as well do whatever you want.
Here are a few ways you can practice this today:
1. Share your feedback honestly with someone. Speak compassionate truth.
2. Share your story fully — don’t skip over the embarrassing and ugly bits.
3. Don’t censor yourself. Speak the way you would in real life.
4. Wear the shirt your partner hates that you secretly love. Tell him to deal with it.
5. Create your art exactly the way you want to. Take risks. Walk the edges. Don’t compromise.
6. Do something in your business to follow your own heart, rather than blindly listening to what the experts think you should do.
7. Dance wildly. Even while someone’s looking.
🙂
Whatever you want to do, go, just do it. Because the truth is, no one really cares.
Ah, now isn’t that liberating?
Regards
LordDeceiver
Sama Rasa Sama Rata...
Sign with Blood...
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Setuju
lain kali kalo copas tulisan dari internet kasih link sumber ya dek.
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biar lu tau etika copas. dan masih belom nyantumin link sumber? wkkwkw
tuh uda.. skalian di baca,, kalo g ngerti inggris di translate ntar
lu nya aja ngga ngerti sok sok mau translate : ))
haduhhh gw susah nan ngmong sama lu sumpah g nyambung.. jadi klo g ngerti mksd gw g usa d terusin lg yah... buat yg ngerti aja ini
hoammmmm noh jawab dibawah
penting gw jawab d bawah?? gw uda kasi link sumber yg asli,, yg bawah jg copy dr yg asli... TOLOL
mobile.businessinsider.com/being-self-conscious-is-holding-you-back-2013-6
Does this sound familiar?
ooo gitu
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trus d keroyok ama yg pemikirannya cuma ampe judul si g takut awak...
terbukti kan komen awak....wkwkwkwkwkwk
udah baca baca buku semiotika belom?
Whatever you want to do, go, just do it. Because the truth is, no one really cares.
Whatever you want to do, go, just do it.
just do it
do it
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GESTAPU KEMAREN PADA KEMANA AJA ???
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WKAKAKAAKAKAKAK
LAGIAN TS SALAH NANGKEP INTISARINYA,
"JUST DO IT", BUKAN "NO ONE REALLY CARES"
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KLO GA SANGGUP GA USAH DIPAKSAIN STUPID
gini ya kan lu bisa baca itu "just do it... but the truth is,," ga perlu lah gw jelasin per kata.. yg ada gw kasian kan jadinya..
GW JELASIN PELAN2 YA, TOLONG LO JG BERUSAHA
Whatever YOU want to do, "YOU" = OBJEK
"just do it" = ISI PESAN UNTUK SI OBJEK
BECAUSE (BUKAN BUT) the truth is, no one really cares.
"BECAUSE" = KARENA = SEBAB / ALASAN UNTUK MENDUKUNG ISI PESAN
GW KASIHAN SAMA LO UDAH LAMA
ah mbe gak ngerti nih.... itu di bold underline loh... jadi penting banget... jauh lebih penting dari isi artikel nya.... kaya gak inget jaman kuliah aja nih si mbe....
mngkin si kambing g bs baca underline..
artiin dong...
akan waria kuasai kaleeaan semuaahh nyiaahahahhahaha
#menan, upeti gue maneeee ??? tilpan tilpun aje luh
stupidubidam dam stupidubidam....
A Bad Entertainer, Ridiculous Infantry
yeaahh you know what i mean
titip lapak gan xD
http://www.erepublik.com/en/article/welcome-to-the-jungle-alt-lyrics-2327557/1/20
Hati-hati ke ban gan, nitip lapak mulu XD
wkwkwkwk,,jd inget nitip ref link erep di lounge kaskus neh :/
Sama rata sama rasa.. \m/